Iconic South African actress Connie Ferguson has found herself at the centre of online controversy following her absence at the funeral of fellow actor Presley Chweneyagae. Presley, known for his powerful performance in the Oscar-winning film Tsotsi, was laid to rest on 7 June 2025. While many mourners gathered to pay their final respects, the internet quickly took notice of who was and wasn’t present.

Connie Ferguson’s name began trending on X (formerly Twitter) as social media users questioned her non-attendance. The speculation sparked mixed reactions, with critics accusing her of not showing support, and others rushing to her defence.

Some critics expressed disappointment, expecting someone of Connie’s stature and history in the entertainment industry to honour Presley in person. Posts like those by user @joy_zelda questioned why Ferguson didn’t attend the funeral, while others suggested that public figures like her should make more visible efforts to support industry peers during difficult times.

However, the backlash was met with a wave of strong support from fans and fellow social media users. Many argued that no one is obligated to attend a funeral and that personal reasons, including emotional triggers, could have influenced her decision. One user, @AgriGrowthBuzz, empathised with Connie, writing, “What if funerals are a trigger that reminds her of the loss of her loved ones?”

Another user, @collenyiko, highlighted the importance of respecting personal boundaries: “People have their reasons for not doing something. No one is forced to do what you and your friends think is right.”

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Some pointed out that Connie may have had prior professional engagements. Notably, it was reported that the weekend of Presley’s funeral coincided with the launch of Kings of Jo’Burg Season 3, a series that Connie Ferguson is deeply involved in. User @sasaresane noted, “This weekend was the launch of Kings of Jo’Burg 3, which looks like it was planned months ago.”

There were also calls for understanding that support can take different forms. While some people expect public mourning, others argue that silent support, financial assistance, or private grief are equally valid. One netizen, @Chizoexpo, acknowledged this but also urged Connie to consider more visible emotional support in future.

Meanwhile, actor Warren Masemola drew widespread praise for his moving tribute during Presley’s funeral. His heartfelt eulogy went viral and was seen as a touching gesture that captured the deep bond the two shared.

In the days following the funeral, Connie remained silent on the matter publicly. Fans hope her silence isn’t mistaken for indifference but rather an expression of grief handled privately.

The incident highlights a broader conversation around grief, expectations from celebrities, and the boundaries of public life. While some may view absence as a lack of care, others remind us that personal pain and emotional limitations often shape how individuals choose to mourn.

In the end, the discourse served as a reminder that empathy and compassion are crucial, especially during times of loss.